Timothy Dearhamer

Timothy Dearhamer, LCSW, is a licensed clinical social worker specializing in ADHD across the lifespan, couples and relationship therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). He brings both clinical expertise and lived understanding to his work with individuals and couples affected by ADHD, helping them move from cycles of frustration and resentment toward practical systems and genuine connection. Timothy has presented regionally on ADHD, emotional wellbeing, and ACT-based approaches, including at the 2026 Oklahoma Social Work Summit. He is the creator of the Calendars, Clutter & Connection couples workshop framework, which blends ADHD psychoeducation, practical systems design, and ACT principles to help couples build relationships that work for both partners. In his clinical practice, Timothy works with adults, couples, and families, with a focus on the intersection of neurodiversity and relationships. He is passionate about translating brain science into real-life strateg